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Is jealous a good thing or a bad thing?? What's the difference between 'jealous for' and 'jealous of'?? I don't know.. Anyone can give me an answer?
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jealous of means- the bad jealous. the kind of jealous that give u the sin of coveteousness. you don't have the thing, and so u want it and u want it so badly. and because u do not have it, and they got it.. it felt like, all the attention to drawn away from you and draw towards them. and somehow this kind of jealous cause a little of hatred towards the person you are jealous of. you might be successful through this jealousy, but with the wrong reason. and this is the kind of jealous that is not glorify God.
jealoud for means - the good jealous.
the kind of jealous where you feel happy for the person because of things they obtained. and in the same time, u want to be like them, learn from them.. to do better in life, and with a life that is glorifying God. and this jealous do not cause hatred towards the person you are jealous for. but, ur relationship grew deeper because you will follow his/her footstep. And you will definitely be successful with this jealousy.
for example:
1)if, Rachel obtained higher gred than Ya-Pei..
Ya-Pei will say or probably thinking this deep down in her heart, "So what if she achieve higher? Show off only. Achieve higher score means more friends mer? Why all the attention goes to her? Why everybody surrounding her? You just watch and see la! i will do better than her next time, i am sure!"
(this is jealous of)
2) If Rachel score higher than Ya-Pei.
and Ya-Pei think/act/say : "Wah! Rachel, you've got such high greds! how did you do that? Can you teach me? i really need help over here. I really have been studying, but i do not know why i cannot answer during the exam. could you help me.." and so on.. aahahha!
(this is jealous for)
well,this will have 2 effect!
you will either make Rachel feel humble..
Rachel : "nolah, i am not all that great. it's just that i am trying my best. and seriously it is God doing the work! i never expected any of these.."
OR
make Rachel feel proud
Rachel: "haha! Ofcourse la! I am Rachel mar! I am smart! you study wrong way la u. u must be like me.. then only you will score mar. but i think i will still score higher than u lor!"
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but, i am sure Rachel is most of the time humble and she is willing to help (smiling to self)
so, you get me or not??
ahahhaha!!!
Yea.. I understand.. OkOk.. but.. your example so cute.. but make it easy to understand.. LOL!! Thanks. actually i know. It's just one is 羡慕another one is 妒忌. Hahaha..
HAHAHAHA!!! you know then you ask forrrr whattt??? aihyooo.. really ... 明知故问.. 吃饱饭没事做
HAHAHAHA! =D
Hahaha.. that time confused ma.. so can't think properly.. you see the date.. very long ago post d lor.. lol
hahaha! yea! i know you will surely thought of the answer yourself in the end la. but i just want to POST a comment to u.. because i saw u asking ppl to tell you the answer through your post. BUT.. no one commented. so, i felt soooo pity FOR you, i answer you lor. to show that you know.. you are not ignored! HAHAHHAHA!
Ohok.. thanks for letting me know that.. i din know until you tell me ler.. aiyor.. Hahaha.. but i know God will not ignore me =)
=D that is true =)
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